Damn, that’s hard.
Small habits, like cleaning after eating or cooking, or always putting your bank card back in the wallet.
Or more intense stuff like withholding from snotty comments or fighting with urges to be petty.
Or a job. It’s difficult to quit.
Or friends. It has happened in my life that some friends and I didn’t grow a bond strong enough to survive, or we weren’t strong enough, or secretly one of us never wanted to be friends.
Today I stopped myself from being overly critical and I was quite proud of myself. Because I do believe it’s fine to be a tosser to a complete stranger but it’s not okay to belittle your closest ones. Never.